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Sometimes Waiting Is a Good Thing, and Sometimes It鈥檚 Not.

  • By President Proctor
  • Published 06 11, 2026
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How good at waiting are you? On a scale of 1-10鈥攊f 1 is a hungry toddler and 10 is a meditating monk鈥攈ow patient would you say you are? Here鈥檚 a quiz to evaluate yourself:

1. When a preacher stands to preach, do you:

a. Put away your watch and phone so you can listen without any thought of time

b. Wish sermons had a game clock and ended at the buzzer (鈥淪orry you only got two points today, preacher鈥)

c. Listen to the sermon until the 30-minute mark, then hold up your car keys and start jingling

2. At a fast-food drive-through, the cashier is having a long conversation with the driver in front of you. Do you:

a. Feel joy that they鈥檙e experiencing community and consider asking them to join your small group

b. Avoid honking, but dream of things you would like to say to that cashier

c. Attempt to drive your vehicle between that car and the drive-through window to get your food

Keep reading to find out when we want OCC students to wait鈥nd when we don鈥檛.

Theologian Philip Kenneson wrote, 鈥淏eing patient often feels like death.鈥 I don鈥檛 know exactly what he means, but I do know: I鈥檓 an impatient person, and waiting kills me. I have speeding tickets from eight states. (I鈥檓 not proud of that. At my baptism, I think my accelerator foot got left out of the water. It never got saved.) I鈥檓 getting better鈥攊t鈥檚 been several years since my last ticket鈥攂ut waiting is something I鈥檓 still learning.

That鈥檚 true for our students too. They grew up in an impatient culture: we do taxes with QuickBooks, get money from Quicken Loans, use a phone service called Sprint, and wear swimsuits called Speedo. (Some do; I don鈥檛.) We diet with SlimFast, put pictures on Instagram, and even have a mountain named Rushmore! So when our students enroll, they want to change the world for Jesus now.

But maybe it鈥檚 no accident that God sent Jesus to minister before there were cars and planes. Walking was the primary first-century mode of transportation, so Kosuke Koyama calls Jesus 鈥渢he three-mile-an-hour God.鈥 That鈥檚 normal walking speed, and Jesus is a God who moves at walking pace. He is a not-in-a-hurry God who makes time for lost and lonely and hurting people.


Jesus walked slowly because that鈥檚 鈥渢he speed of love.鈥

Ministry is a slow business. Listening to someone haltingly tell their story. Walking beside someone escaping addiction. Giving answers鈥攁gain鈥攖o someone working through doubts. Helping a church slowly catch a vision for evangelism. (2 Timothy 4, 鈥淧reach the word鈥ith great patience.鈥) These things take time.

鈥淏eing patient often feels like death,鈥 and we want our students to die to the need for now. Learning patience is part of ministry preparation, and we want to instill in them a willingness to walk at 鈥渢he speed of love.鈥

Sometimes waiting is a good thing鈥ut sometimes it鈥檚 not. I鈥檒l explain, but first: we鈥檙e expecting a huge freshman class this fall! That鈥檚 good news, because 鈥渢he harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few.鈥 (Matt 9:37)

But it鈥檚 also a problem, and I鈥檒l let Reagan Wehmeyer tell you why. Keep reading鈥


Reagan Wehmeyer is a great young leader who just graduated from OCC. (He鈥檚 now the youth minister at Connect Christian Church in Carl Junction, Missouri.) When I did Reagan鈥檚 graduate exit interview a few weeks ago, I asked about OCC鈥檚 strengths. He mentioned chapel, faculty, Bible classes, and said, 鈥淭he longer I鈥檝e been here, the more I鈥檝e enjoyed it. 99% of my experience has been phenomenal.鈥

Then I asked him about Ozark鈥檚 weaknesses: 鈥淲hat can we improve?鈥 Reagan didn鈥檛 even have to think: 鈥淐afeteria lines. I love the food and the people, but the noon cafeteria lines are a problem.鈥

He鈥檚 right, and that鈥檚 why I鈥檓 asking for your help.

Since 2017, our enrollment at OCC has grown 42%! That growth is roughly half undergraduate students, half seminary students. And this fall, we may have as much as a 25% bump in new undergraduate students alone!

But as enrollment has gotten bigger, the cafeteria lines have gotten longer. When students pour out of class at noon for lunch, their wait in line can be up to 30 minutes. Our cafeteria crew works hard, but the current serving area only allows a certain number at a time. Nobody likes waiting when they鈥檙e hungry. (鈥淗angry鈥 is a real thing.) Some students also have a 1:00 p.m. class or work shift, and that wait can make them late.

Sometimes waiting isn鈥檛 a good thing, and I鈥檇 love your help to fix this problem.


It鈥檚 time to expand our cafeteria serving line area. Some remodeling this summer will allow us to add another serving line, which鈥攚ith a few other changes鈥攚ill help us get students through the lines much quicker this fall.

This project will involve new construction (moving walls), new equipment (serving bar, warmers, cabinets, turnstile), and drainage work, and the project鈥檚 price tag is $75,000.

I saw a T-shirt that said: 鈥淚 had my patience tested. I鈥檓 negative.鈥 Since patience is the fruit of the Spirit鈥檚 work (Gal 5:22), we want our students to 鈥渢est positive鈥濃攖o learn to wait well.

But sometimes a little 鈥渉oly impatience鈥 is a virtue. Scripture tells us there are times when we should not wait:

When you can 鈥渟ettle quickly鈥 with the person taking you to court. (Matt 5:25)

When you can reconcile with a person who has something against you. (Matt 5:23)

When you can receive God鈥檚 grace. 鈥淭oday is the day of salvation.鈥 (2 Cor 6:2)

When you can give help. 鈥淒o not withhold good鈥hen it is in your power to act. Do not say to your neighbor, 鈥楥ome back tomorrow, and I鈥檒l give it to you鈥 when you already have it with you.鈥 (Prov 3:27-28)

We don鈥檛 want to 鈥渨ithhold good鈥 from our students. This remodel will bless our growing student body and鈥攊n the midst of full class, work, and ministry schedules鈥攁llow them to spend time where it鈥檚 needed most. Would you pray about a generous gift to our general fund to expand our cafeteria serving area?

I鈥檓 grateful we have a 鈥渢hree-mile-an-hour God鈥 who takes time for each of us. But Jesus also reminded us: the Great Commission is urgent, and we cannot wait in fulfilling it. 鈥淎s long as it is day, we must do the works of him who sent me. Night is coming, when no one can work.鈥 (John 9:4)

So thank you for considering partnership in training these Great Commission leaders. Because of them, the streets of heaven will someday be more crowded. We will get to stand with people鈥攊ntroduced to Jesus by graduates you helped prepare鈥攁nd join them in singing the praise of our glorious Savior.

I can鈥檛 wait.

Yours in Christ,

Matt Proctor
President

P.S. After the letter I sent in March鈥攖hanks to folks like you鈥攖he MPB bathrooms are now scheduled for renovation work this summer. We are grateful for you!



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